In every relationship, at one time or the other, conflict may arise, when such conflicts arises, the individuals involved becomes greatly angered. Some people may seek for revenge if caution is not applied.
It is important to know that the right thing to do when you encounter conflict in your relationship is first, calm yourself down because most actions taken as a result of anger often lead to regrets.
Here are steps to guide you deal with conflicts in your relationship
Don’t react immediately
It is very important for you to learn self control most especially when you are provoked or angered. In your relationship, if your partner annoys you avoid reacting or responding immediately, this is because out of annoyance, you can either make utterances or take actions which you may regret later. Comport yourself and think before you act.
Listen to music or watch videos
There are some music and videos that will help you to calm yourself down before dealing with conflicts in your relationship, look for those music and videos, play them and or watch them attentively, this will help you to regain yourself and be able to tackle such conflict in a proper way.
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Do exercise
This may sound funny to you, but I want to let you know that exercise not only recreates your body, but also your mind.
It diverts your attention and make you concentrate on what you are doing. You can engage in exercises such as; running, rope jumping or walking gently around.
Pray to God for self control
There is nothing God cannot do, when it seems that you cannot control your anger again, call on Him, he will surely help you to control your anger.
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When you know the right thing to do, you will be able to deal with conflicts in your relationship, this will go a long way to make you have a good and enjoyable relationship.
